Words from a friend

To live your life so that it only seems for other to be ok, is not good for yourself.
Think through your thoughts and feelings and don't rely on others.
How long do you wait for somebody else to be always there to rescue you, when you are in trouble. It might not last forever.
Are you sure, you want to wait until everybody is tired from pulling you out, because they will not do it endlessly. Are you sure that is something worth waiting for.
If you do not love yourself and enjoy just being there, it is hard also for others to feel joy over you.
If you want somebody to love you, then you have to start loving yourself first.
It is not worth chasing things, which are no longer there or things, which will probably never happen.
If you are making the same mistake over and over again, then use your logic to figure out, what needs to be done differently.
Dont think things too complicated for yourself.
Being alone gives the oportunity to be free, to work with yourself and to think your own thoughts.
You have to practice to master it.
It is easy to let others decide over you and to let others deal with the problems you are having, to actually make a difference and to change thing for better, you have to act yourself and to work with yourself.
Anyone can do this.
To look yourself from the inside is propably quite scary.
humans are usually quite grose inside, egocentric maniacs.
But you have to jump into the hole, in order to clean its walls.
You can think about it for the rest of your life, which will come ropably sooner than you think in that case, or you can start doing something about it.
The longer you wait, the more tangled you will become and the greater the possibility is that you will parish under the big pile of stress one day.
Start doing something today.

My friends words are true. I love You